Dear Sister, I'm so very sorry for your pain. France being not too familiar with the idea of "purity" this is an interesting topic for us. You found a place to ask. Arguments against Masturbation Now we look at the various arguments that Christian churches use to condemn masturbation and then answers those arguments. Sexual fantasy and masturbation are not sexual sins — contrary to the assertions of many Christian teachers over the centuries. So in procession, I need to define my own convictions and explain them in common sense.
Every thing in life requires us learning. I always pray and ask the lord to take away my desire to lust and masturbate and he does and then it always comes back. I have shown and answered some of the most common arguments the churches and various Christian teachers use to condemn masturbation. A person who is living in a lascivious or sensual way is a person who has made pleasure the central focus of their life. But does this mean that the person is being mastered by the flesh?
Please, what should i do? First let me assure you as a Christian young person or older person that you are not abnormal, perverted or weird for masturbating. This is an idea of how I do this. Here are three reasons masturbation is a problem for Christian women: There are some things that we are private about that are normal bodily functions. Argument 1 against masturbation — God killed Onan for masturbating A myth that has been pushed by churches for centuries is that God killed a man named Onan for masturbating. Grace and peace to you through our Lord.
Along with that, someone taught me to envision God saying "Well Done" not just for every day or hour, but every minute or temptation resisted. A large debate could be made specifically about the reason that sexuality itself was created, but to steer clear of another endless debate, lets just assume the common position that sex was created to bring a married man and woman closer together as one flesh. He is waiting with open arms for us to look to Him. Now that i am saved and living for God i have no problem not dating and being by myself. I think Sandra is right, you need connection. Firstly the fact that sexual intercourse is all about relationships and interpersonal communication.